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Bikini girls molested by 4 openly - video



Hot stories of a girl being molested by 4 guys at a beach party during New Year count down. A lot of people were raged on the on looker who choose to film it down with their phone instead of lending out a helping hand.

I looked at a different perspective.

For people who complained so much, very much appears to me that they were ignorance about Singapore Rave party. They must be a nerd.

First, its a party and when the girl dares to dress in bikini and attend these kind of crowded party, they kind of already anticipated it. How decent they expect the party to be? She is inviting trouble by wearing so loosely. You wanted a decent party? I probably suggest library a better options.

Second, don't blame Singaporean for not helping. We always like to comment about people's wrongs at the convenient of our desktop. Were you in the situation? Were you stand up for justice? Don't walk the talk. Oh, you suddenly turned into a world savior in front of your computer. Besides, the situation was not clear for that 40 secs. It confusing to react. What if you approached them and turns out they were friends or the girl was playing along? She didn't give signal of wanting any help. She could have scream or shove them away.

Third, you can argue that she was too drunk to react. See she let herself drunk without her good friends around. She is inviting trouble.

And lastly, this is Singapore, you think the 4 guy were so bold to openly molest the girl without she flirting at the first place. They obviously knows that people were taking film as evidence and they still dare to be so upfront? If the victim wants to pursuit the matter, she had all the evidence and source to apprehend these molester.

Wear a BURQA next time...

My way to fight Negativity

Negativity is the phenomenon of paying more attention on negative events over positive events. Even the same magnitude of good and bad events happen, the person will generally feels unhappy. Putting it this way:

You lost $5 on the way and picks up $5 accidentally, you choose to moan over your bad luck rather than your good luck. A typically balanced event, why would someone prefers to feel bad instead of good.

Beside being negative and self inflicting mental torment, negative would jolly well be spread around. It affects the people around you, like wise of optimism. And likely hood, these kind of person lack the determination that they can change the situation and complete given up at the first place. More often than not, these people are feeling self depreciated, unwanted, abandoned, worthless and low self esteem.

All in all, everything lead me to believe that being optimistic overweight pessimistic. Maybe I can share some of my personal experience on how to act on negativity.

  1. First, I always remind myself, I am a lucky fellows, to be born perfectly fine with all body parts functionally working. At least my looks don't scare people off on the street, seriously I am contented. Hence I will not be affected by people saying me ugly, bad complexion, fat or what so ever. No one can makes me feel interior unless I allow them to.
  2. Always compare to other more unfortunate people around and see that I am actual no that bad. The things that I had went through, some other had it worst.
  3. Enjoy the very moment, stop swelling on the past or dreaming about the future. Its good to do reflection and planning once in a while. But you didn't realize is that the small little joy around you. Like a good collection of porno and beer to go along. "Life is good" LG motto.
More or less I uses these pointers to counter my negativity. And it always worked. I don't claim myself as extremely enlightened or positive, but I am constantly working on achieving that.

But however, I find that pessimistical view works in certain situation. To be a bit more conservative, I don't assume my outcome to be very optimistic. I provision a little bit in case if I fail, I will not be totally disappointed. Example people ask me how I did for my exam, I answered at a little conservative sides. Unless I am extremely confidence than I will say I did great. Probably can blame that I am a perfectionist.

However, some people always see me as a hypocrite. Fine. Perfectly fine. I am openly evil. I never claim I am a holy shit to begin with. Anyone is flawed, I am on average more evil than kind. Agree.

2010, a new year ahead. May you the all almighty give my friend the strength to overcome his/her difficulties in life and bless them with good spirit and joy.

Weiheng's party

Big thanks to Wei Heng for inviting us to the awesome party. With boozes, girls and cigarette abundantly available. This was one of the best party ever!

Around 20 plus turned up for the party many girls inclusive. Goodness of the party should not be judged on these picture. Taken at the wrong time at a wrong angle. Its freaking high according to Liping's blog.

I got wasted before 12am and slept all the way till morning. Woke up with a serious hang over and puke numerous time. Basically, I just puked anything that went in my stomach. Mango juice, red bull and fried rice.

Left to right: Joyce (fuck face), Jeremy (black king kong) and Liping (fat fuck)

Fuck face was super steady and mind fucked. Her personality is kinda of like loud and probably boomz too. No wait, I think loud is an understatement. She probably cause induced deafness and vessel contractions. I can't come out with a adjective to describe her noisiest. But that is the fun part!! Furthermore she is very protective of CLP.

We dared her to make out with CLP and so she did. French kisses. Super turn on. I guess at this time is where I lost my consciousness. Again, somebody took over me again. I am wasted. This phenomenon of delirium makes me loss my consciousness but physically I am still active. I don't recall a much, if anything just vague images of me doing something on my own. Like I was taken control over by some others ya, split personality.

Christmas 2009 and "The Hang Out"

Second week into my last holiday for Poly, busily packed with much activities going on.

First off, celebrated 09 Christmas with Weiheng's group and Yiwei at 12th element pub. Very impromptu decision. Guess nothing really much happening, except alcohol and women.

A few tower beer and Martel for the night


Some pole dancing :)))

Picture taken with them

Thanks Liping for the Christmas card. Remarkable efforts and I love the drawings. Thanks again. Appreciated



I got Liping a Digital Camera for Bday, hoping she can appreciate photography and takes more pictures on her blog and FB. Preferably with me in it.

"If you see it, you will be mind-fucked"

Get together with Qing He and Jiayi to "the hang out", a place where you can play board games and console games. They even serve meal in the package. For promotion period, we paid $10 per head for 2 hours of Wii and Xbox with drinks and food. Great deal. Opposite parklane.

We hang out at "the hang out"

Our guitar heroine

"Wii", how about a game of bowling?

Night cyling and CLP bday

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you!!!



Been waiting for so long, you are finally 18. Well you are legal already.... to do a lot of things :) Like drinking, clubbing and of course taking your class 2b license. Woke up late today due to extreme wear and tear from night cycling. I never have been so mental drained. Went out at night to west mall to eat Thai Bali. Sucks, not nice one. Dinner was paid by CLP $60 plus!!

After dinner, I super full and bloated, wonder around west mall and saw a big big open space theater. Like Ge Tai like that but playing movie instead. So we decided to join the hundreds of uncle and auntie sit down there watch free "IP Man". Very unique experience and so sweet sitting beside your darling. Wahaha. TMR still got startek, will go and watch if I still got the strength after IPPT test.

Okie, let's talk about Night Cycling 2009

Image taken and uploaded by Ethan, our friendly photographer cum driver cum first aider cum MaMa Tiam uncle. Many thanks..

Me and Yong Sheng go help out BE do lorry driver. We like driving the whole day from 2pm to the next day 8am. Super tired.

CLP was my V-comm for the night, duty is to keep me accompany and not die of boredom. We just talk cock and play with N82, ipod all the way.


Yong Sheng took the above picture with his 2.0mp camera on his Iphone. Edited with in build application (photoshop) and end product was impressive.

While we sit around killing time, took some more pictures.

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Second is the best loser

Life is so unfair. Just finished my common test but tonnes of works already piling up before me. While people enjoying their 2 weeks break, I had to meet my deadlines. Projects, RT 4 times a week and Night Cycling. All coming at me this week.

Say I tomorrow had to go RT at 8am then draw lorry at 1pm then event at 6pm till 6am the next day. Return lorry and chiong to RT again at 8am. Project endline on Sunday night which I haven done anything. Monday night go fishing, tuesday go makeup shopping with Amenda they all. Wah, the schedule like so suffocating.

Today, just came back from BBQ for the PUB and SEMBCORP people. Intented for us to mingle around. End up, like segregating apart. Totally hopeless. They told me that the juniors were hard to communicate, and indeed it was. I tried to speak up to them only to receieve cold shoulders. Okie lah, maybe I got wai ren lian lah.

Vice President, Mr Gan came and he wasn't so fierce as I had known from work. Today he seems like a chatty old man telling his grandfather stories.

"In life, you have to learn to put down all the minor minor details lah. Like me so perfectiontisic, end up suffering." said Ah Gan

True lah. But hard sia. For me, I think I got the prefectionist mentality. It's either all out, or not at all. I don't attempt things unless I know I can excel. Not a good thing as I makes me turn down to challenge, which is the best method to learn. I don't like challenge, unless I bao jia. In me, its either black or white, north or south, wrong or right and win or lose. I don't have the grey boundary.

What is the different between second and last?

ANS: NONE!! Second only means that you are the best loser.

Villa Bali with CLP

I am so glad.

The desktop I brought last year was able to support recent graphical intensive games like Resident Evil 5 and Left 4 dead 2. It the best stress reliever for exams. Periodical breaks between revision ensure better absorption. Avoid sleeping altogether, for I am those who absorbs most during wee hours.


Albeit better graphic, but most of the time, the game happens during day time. If you played RE 1 and 2 on Play Station before, you will agree with me that it is a all time classic famous for its fright elements. I completed part 1, 2 and 3 then straight to 5. I am disappointed for it seems like a normal 3rd person shooter game. The zombies don't drag forward anymore. They jitao run and it seems that they are getting more intelligent, I kicked the ladder away to prevent them from climbing up, they can go and bring the ladder up again and climb! Fucking shit lah. Don't take this the wrong way but the zombies seems to be 'dark skinned' like shooting Ah Neh lah. In another words you can imagine you shooting the Ah Neh in Mustafar while they all charging towards you in all directions.

Mustafa on Sunday night, sourcing for cameras. Was very tempted by Samsung "Beauty shot" series and preferably running off AA disposable batteries. Bulky of course due to the compartment of AA battery, but I was more concern with the functionality. Rechargeable batteries are long lasting and cheaply replaceable. You can get it of the shelf easily went you are traveling without your chargers. Of course you can also choose to bring a couple of spare with you. You cannot do this to a normal lithium batteries. Moreover, I can get it for $159 with optical stabilizing. Hmm, still considering.



After RCD paper (difficult). We went to orchard roaming about aimlessly. Went to lucky plaza to see Maxi cash. Gold trade value had fallen from $1212 (highest in history) to $1150. But it still consider high compared to Sept value of around $900. Money credited +++

Went over to Villa Bali for my 3rd time. A very luxury place of a drink. Spent over $50 just for a couple of red wine and Tequila with Chix Wings. Good that they had one of one promotion to midnight. Very nice ambient with cool music and good ventilation. Its located deep into Alexendra road hence moisture are damp and refreshing. Highly recommended with price is not your concern. A good place to chill and hold a little catching up sessions.



For civil terminology to describe yesterday night:

CLP condition had exceeded its serviceable limit state:
  • "structure" still standing without collapsing, however is unfit for "use"
  • extended deflection (deflecting and swaying around with signs of overturning)
  • cracking and vibration (uncontrollable laughter and lower tolerant to jokes)
  • reinforcements are required (human supports)
I wasn't sober enough and forgot to film her down with my video camera. It was her "first time" it would be very memorable for her. Wahaha. She challenged me to test her APMC question and I pop her with:

What are the pollutants from incomplete combustion?

She took forever to answer. But typically anyone who are drunk will want to reassure people that they isn't drunk. Kind of like, ask me and I will answer type. This is the symptoms for a drunk person. How ironic.

For the past 2 month, I got this persistent "bump" on my right hand. Just one bump and its like all over my hand. First it happens at my bicep, red patches of blue black. Then it developed into a bump. A little painful. Slowly it spread into 2 bump, one traveled to my forearm the other one travel down to my fist. Then it started to soar. It looks a little funny, and I like keep staring at it.

First the first time, I literally can 伸出援手.

N82 image stabilizer

Now is already 3am. Still studying for APMC. I don't think I had the time to finish studying and I am going to miss my beauty sleep.

WRT is like going to due in 2 days, considering that I don't have a MS word on PC and my laptop failed me, I had like no ways to complete my part. I had to resort to using notepad. I think it is super time consuming. So time had to be spend wasted, it left me with no time to study. Burning tonight is the only feasible solution.


Okie let see if N82 "physical" stabilizer lives up to its name. Left is stabilized and right is not. Click to enlarge!! With my expensive "advantageous" haircut (claimed by the hair stylist), of course I need to go get myself some "advantageous" clothes. Went G2000 get some corporate clothing. They now having sales and shirts are like $16 and pant at $19. I totally like Andy Lau look alike lah. Wahhahah. Right, please vomit.


Miss my "Kim Mo"

Last week assembled a PC during IS. Of course not my first time assembling a PC lah. I so techno geek, its will be a shame not knowing how to DIY a computer right.

Chicken feet and as fast and swift as a ninja, we were first to complete even my team is out numbered. Excellent!! Ya I am boosting.

So looking forward, 8 more study week before I can free my mind. Dilemma on whether to further study or not. Need a serious thought. But definitely not now cause I need to get back to my APMC liao.

CIAO

WII or Xbox 360, New Moon

Instead of studying on Friday, we went out to Bugis to shop. Brought a shirt at $55. Expensive yet I realize I hated the shirt only after I paid for the shirt. Like totally wasting money. Shop at Bugis Junction, wanna buy a small GUESS bag for CLP to hold her wallet and small item. Just can't decide on what she wants. She want nice looking, multi taskable, chio, strong built and yet need to be cheap. Like say less than $10. Where on earth can we get that. Not in Shen Zhen right?

Then went to Sim Lim Square for the intention of buying WII. Look around for price comparison between all the console. PS3, Xbox360 and so on. Not really that I want to play any games but just that even myself thinks that my house is quite boring. No entertainment or so. So if I were to buy some 2 players game, we could spend some quality time together yet not so expensive. You know going out like today can spend almost $200. I thought WII is more feminine and easy for the girls, because complicated games with lots of control not really for female type loh. However CLP said WII games are lame. I totally agreed. Contrary, I also think that Xbox 360 games are too complicated for her. A match of "Wrestle Mania" proved my hypothesis.

I went back to the basement at Sim Lim to have the so called "thickest" coffee in Singapore. Proclaimed by the barista. I promptly agreed. Really thicker than starbuck and coffee bean. Definitely not so the weak hearted. CLP had an espresso while I had my latte.

Instead of choosing MRT directly home, we decided to go for bus. This decision indirectly costed me $80. Okie, when I walked to bus stop, saw a very random salon. Called "phase hairdressing". I went in to ask for the price for a men hair cut. $32 - $36. Too embarrassed to walk out cause few trainee stood staring at me with welcoming smile. I don't really disappoint women you see. So obligated and a hairstylist approached me soon. A girl came over "What would you like to drink? Coffee or Tea?" I actually thought there might have the next option. So I said coffee. Then another girl came over to shampoo my hair, while the hairstylist sort of discussed my desire. I believe I am the most easiest customer to please, I told him I am all his for any fantasy he can hold. On my hair of course. He say okie, then bla bla bla what blend, what razor. I was rather prepared to own my first ever bombastic hairstyle from expensive salon. Excellent service but the result I wasn't impressed.. Don't even think a before and after picture were required. I had not intention of impress anyone. Especially my new haircut.

Took 145 home, I dozed off on the bus. I wake up to realize I reached interchange. CLP say she didn't realize all people had alighted, until uncle almost parked at interchange. Great. Heng is at Holland. So we walked out to source of something to eat. Stumble upon the famous XO crab beehoon. I craved to try. $30.




For photography sake, we looked so like impressed. But actually I just think it was so so.

Went home to watch Twilight with her. Second time for me but still find interesting. Inspire me to go catch NEW MOON. On funshion of course :)



BANNED New Moon trailer!!!!!
For official released version, click here

Finally a pleasing poster from Newmoon, opposing the white faced shit on Twilight.