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The wrong way to make a cafe su dai

Today my off day got some spare time at home and I think how about using some time to play with my Vietnam phin filter someone brought me N years ago. But I ran out of vietnam coffee bean, I used Colombia bean instead.

A very powerful vietnam chief had share her guide on how to brew a Vietnam authentic coffee.


And yes I literally listening to vietnam song while waiting for the brewing process like how she had recommended. And NO it didn't make the waiting less painful for me. The brewing process a almost 8 minutes. That will depend on your compression and the coarse of the bean. I guess why Vietnam coffee are cold by the time I reach the table. Cafe su dai is more popular i guess.

Alright. My coffee is ready now at this point of writting. Let me go try it....

Okie judging the color of my coffee I believe it too light and diluted compare to the Long phung coffee. It taste absolute no where like the one i had. Phewwww

Taste like drain water. So light. Nabei. 



I did use the Hario coffee grinder. At least that one still produce desire result of grinned bean





Please do not see my brewing process. Really fuck up. Okie wash up time. Then off me go watch some Vietnam clip on youtube already.

Planning to Saigon trip 2014

Book my ticket to Vietnam and will be leaving on 12th January 2014. Finally, this will be the first time I visit this country, going to visit so of my friend I knew back here in Singapore. Trang's coffee shop is at Hanoi so probably don't get to listen to her singing this time.

When to youtube some Vietnam Ho chi minh clips and saw Gordan eating snake in Vietnam and I google some strange exotic food served in Vietnam. They have the culture of "finish everything" meaning they try to keep waste of food to minimum.




I really want try the "make man have power" baby duck eggs and "one night 5 time" snake heart and blood. Fucking want to try. And seasonal period they have dog meat in Vietnam. Gonna get some puppy love as well. Of course I will be back with tonnes of Vietnam coffee, and I had already booked 20kg luggage back to Singapore. Lathivan gonna join me and show me the true way of Vietnam. Yahoo!!

Vietnam is like a topical country and I guess I will be missing out snowing. Unlike Shen Yang which I totally can't forget the duck blood fen si and Xue bi

Club 36 having Christmas lucky draw and I had collected a couple of voucher which I heard that the first price is a 2 return ticket to Vietnam. Very innovative so I hope I get to go for 2nd time if I am lucky being picked as the grand price winner. Wahaha.

Gonna got out of job soon. Poor Gary.

Being asked to leave citi

I think after so many chances given to me, when I still take it for granted, the pressure cooker finally letting off some stream today. I invited to meeting room and this is the first time going with TM alone. Just uncommon for Team CT to be inside room lah. Hansel wanna "gai guat" me in joking manner. But I knew that there is still minimal seriousness in his tone.

By the way, as I was writting this blog i am still listening to Giac Mo Qua Roi by Trang.

Basically inside he just ask me why am I giving this kind of result and the mentality is not fucking hack care. After a long talk, he half motivating and half lecturing me and told me that group head is thinking of firing me. Alvin from KT team had helped me and say that he is willing to take me into his team, well I cannot say that  I was a little bit touched that there is still people out there willing to trust me. He say that although I had attitude and compliance issue but he think that I am the kind of person who will listen to reason.

However I gave a short thought inside the room and think that I should not be putting Alvin team into jeopardy since I had no motivation anymore. I told hansel i had thought of changing another career. I think it will be responsible for me not to hide this kind of thing anymore even if it means that he will sure ask me to leave. Anyway he gave me the option to either change to Alvin's team or to tender resignation.

Lathivan and my mum think that it is not a good time for me to leave. I should be earning and saving more before going. But I think there is again no time a best time. Base on my attitude I am just like a little gambler either leave the table while I am on the winning steak than to force leave due to out of chip. For my compliance there will be a time I will be out of luck. So you know I think it is wise to move on.

Nevertheless even though I didn't save much but i had checked a few useful perks for me to advance my property. Mum as usual not supportive at all in basically what i do. Wahaha. 

I guess i have myself to blame. So many job and opportunity but i just don't have the mentality to preserve. Fuck. My life is totally fucked. Whahaha. 

Giac Mo Qua Roi by Trang Fan MV attached

Trang since last went back to Vietnam and she came back, I was there to fetch her at airport. She was here with her another friend, I did my part to bring them around singapore. As fast as she came, she had been here for 1 month and it was time to bid her farewell.

Before she left, she download a couple of song with Zing Mp3. One of the song is the Vietnam version of 江南. The song is so well sang, it grew on me day after day even when she is gone. I kept listen to it on train, during bed time, and any free time when I need energy.

She grew to be like a superstar to me.




My christmas present a mont blanc iphone sleeve

Bad news. My 400k credit limit increase had not been approved, but bank only give up to 240k for mdm cheong. Now she had been sourcing alternative term loan at other bank. Pending their approval, she will only consider taking with me if other bank reject her. And she cannot confirm that she will be taking with me by this month :(

WTF!!! I had already put all my eggs in this basket. My loan till mid month is still $0. If i piew this loan i will miss comm this month. Also mean losing my virgin away... Furthermore i brought the prada briefcase already with the comm of this deal on credit. GG...


No mood to fight this week liao. I jitao ab jurong east and go shopping again. Brought home my dinner to eat while watching my china programme again. 


Visit mont blanc to see my iphone 5 sleeve cover and got convinced by jonathan to buy it on the spot. He say damn chio matching my prada wallet. I guess i am addicted to branded and i can't accept non branded goods even if i find them practically useful. Style and practicality is inverse proportion. Just like i saw one really nice wallet and coin purse from pierre cardin at $89. I rather spend it on mont blanc sleeve which cost me whooping $300. Then they ask me if it was a christmas present and do i need it to be wrapped. I reckon i will not be receiveing any christmas present this year so i thought, why not buy present for myself.




And then i go back home and go through the motion of unwrapping the present assuming i do not know what is inside. Wah!!! A mont blanc sleeve. Thanks Gary. Muack muack, love you. Okie i am crazy. I think its the same as you spending money to buy for someone and the person buy you the present of the same value like gife exchange but i got to choose what gift i want :p


One series of subtle black leathers good and image you signing OTP with cilent. And not forgetting the briefcase opens up as a A4 size folder and signing off with my Balengiaca pen. 


Looking at it, i immediately found that the lighter is like a little out of place. So i went around to get a lighter. What brand shall i go for? Yes ST Dupont!!!! Bring my father's era back can. 


This well know lighter brand with the signature "diang" sound. You can make no mistake it is a dupont lighter from miles away. A lot of dso are copying style like some of the top popular and most copied things are, mont blanc diamond pen, prada bag, rad russel purple laced shoes, hermes signature belt and bangles, tag heuer watch, ray ban spec and the signature uncut hairstyle. I mean drop by any citibank dso booth and you see they almost all carrying the same signature goods. Out of the hundred plus dso, no one ever used any dupont lighter yet. I want to coin the dupont lighter style and let all other dso follow suit. And the price of whooping $1400 for a dupont classic lighter, dso will be dying to buy one cause they had too much money to anyhow spend. I think i shall go for 12 months interest free package as i do not earn like them. I shall get dupont as my valentine gift, another excuse of my to buy myself gift. 


This tie pin and cufflinks are so my style and i had targeted it for my .... Chinese new year gift. Wahahaha. I think ask lathivan get me this. Ciaos

Sales is not all about product but about customer services

It is not the product that sell, it is the service of the saleman. This is what I think and today incident just prove that my theory is right as least for me.

I was out alone to anchor point to buy grocery. After getting my coffee beans, cereal and dairy product I was greeted by a young lady trying to preach me for car wash product. You know the booth is set up outside the lift and the young lady is giving out brochures, you can smell hungry salesmen from mile away. I mean this is salesmen instint to identify another salesmen easily. I gave her the coldest shoulder and express i am not interested in getting the car wash and she insisted to walk me to my car as she claim that anyway they are doing a free service in conjunction to anchorpoint event.

In the way i told her i seen the product before and not interested in getting any of the product. She reassure me it is a free service and proceed to clean my windscreen on the name that it will ensure driver's safety because it will increase the clarity. Well i stood there watching her demo. She proceed to tell me about old car lamp will be oxidiated so she helps me to polish my headlight lamp. She is going for "free demo" strategy. 

After the demo she just causally mention the price per can is $80 when the product launch and that right here and now, this product is at pre launch period. Since it is a prelaunch she told me the can is actually 40% longer and $20 dollar discount so per can which is larger now is offering at $60. She had started to go in for the kill trying to entice me with "limited stock" strategy. 

Secondly she show me the brochures with some other package. Getting 2 for $100 and getting 3 for $140 which include special gift like clothes and fibra wipes. She now going for "bulk purchase" strategy. At this point i see she trying to close me to buy i rejected her offer saying that i do not do much glooming on my car since i had only 2 more years left and i am lazy to do grooming. 

She hand over me the full can which is quite heavy and tell me that this product works on work applicances and electronic products. She now at "multi purpose" strategy. Saying this product is for people who is lazy to do household and just design for people like me. She quickly tell me a quick deal. She will just sell me one can at $60 but she is also throwing in the free gift like special clothes and fibra wipes for me free if i try one can. She now at "additional free gift" strategy. 

At this point i looked at her really hard and start to be impressed with her becarefully planned strategy to sell the car wash for me. She got weird why i stared at her, i quickly told her that i was impressed by her sales tactic but i still not buying something i will not use although the product is really useful due to the fact i just don't clean my car. She smiled and reassure me that's okie and she say anyhow she is going to give me a free membership so that i will get the same promotional price in the future if i ever want to buy. I saw the forms to fill in my particular which she is at the "personal paticular for future lead and referral" strategy. She proceed to finish up to help me polish the rest of the windscreen while i fill up my particulars. 

At this point another salesmen walks up to give me a small talk and ask me if i had my dinner already? And he prompt me some question, i know he is at the "getting to know customer" and "profiling" strategy. He look a bit retarted and intellience challenged so i wait for him to slowly finish his question. He told me he had just closed a customer and he say that i could use it on my fan and toilet tiles and floor tiles. He told the young lady to give me member and he would endorse for me when he know i am really not interested. Before he go he say the young lady is first day and hope i can help her to have her first deal closed. He is using "sypathtic" strategy. 

After all the great sale tactics. I had a feeling that doing sales is difficult and she and her team had deserve my deal regardless if i really need the product, i just felt i need to help the sales person so i just purchase a can to support them without even asking for further discount. I think they did a great service and kudo to their well though sales pitch. I am impressed and praise them for a good job, the salesgirl is so much gratidute she almost come to tears. 

Actually, being in the same line they taught me a valuable lesson and a good role play to teach me how to provide god customer service while closing deal on customer. That is what more valuable than the $60 i had in my pocket. 


Van singing her first 2 chinese songs




I haven totally neglect my chang ba. Now got 2 more song uploaded and that's Mimi singing chinese songs. Yao Boon Leong you so long never go 36 liao, tyna dunno change how many song already loh. And mimi starts singing chinese songs already. But no, you had not miss out anything cause they can be heard by visiting the 2 links below.

风中的承诺

七情六欲

learning hard for chinese songs

BEST PERSONAL COMPILATION VIETNAM POP 2013 (20 SONGS)
For like minded soul sharing and soul healing. 

Got my vr0078 prada prematurely

Okie la. I cheated. Was planning to get the prada briefcase when I close my 400k but I secretly brought it yesterday at Meriot Hotel prematurely. No I haven't yet close my 400k :p Suppose to work at Cathay but I just spend my weekend shopping away. 6 hours around Orchard looking something for my own Christmas present. Good thing being single is to have all the time and money to pamper myself or who will pamper me otherwise? I now feel for the women why they want to remain single and go shopping for themselves. It is high.


Saw Miranda at Meriot hotel and she just rara me to buy the bag saying that this is the right size and etc. So impulsively I brought it and instantly becoming gold member.

Got $240 taka voucher for prestige card challange and go taka hunt for free gift, stumble upon coffee siphon maker, and I waste no time to add it into my collection of all my coffee maker collection. I would want to share in the later post about all my coffee maker :)


Go armani exchange to get 2 causal belt, because they say a men in the 30 must have some good belt in the wardrobe. All in all spend 3k plus yesterday. My wallet shrink in size totally. But don't care, its christmas soon right?


Total damage $3000+. I really need to control my spending. Insurance and road tax coming. Fuck. 

  

Ya suppose to be working here de mah!

A journey of giving and not taking; marriag

A lot if people comment that marrying a foreigner puts your life into jeopardy. However marrying a local doesn't guarantee any much otherwise. 

A lot of people reckon that marriage will give women the sense of security but having a life long soul mate without string attached doesn't. Appearancely, isn't so. 

I perspective on marriage is wreakage. I agree. Coming from a broken family didnt help me to put things into perspective however this doesn't stop the fact that divorce rate is rising. It doesn't help that i am seeing a lot of my friend going through divorce. My ex gf is a good example of going through divorce twice and had completely given up faith for marriage. She had settled in living off with a companion without ever getting marry again. She realize that marriage had instead brough along complication and inconvience instead of the false sense of security. 

I realize that those of my friends who are coming from broken family like me had remain single till now. 30 yo and not married, something is wrong. Not like we are those kind who can't find ourselve gf but why are we still single? 

I think qinghe and me had the same mentality, our heart is shut and unreceptive, and we had lost our ability to love and commit. I think we just love ourselve more. Yong sheng could have a different perspective, he wants to wait for the perfect one to come along, he wants a flawless relationship as he us determine  not provide nothing but the best for his family. He doesn't wanna follow the foot step of his parent although he clearly knows that is nothing call the flawless family. 

I read somewhere that marriage is a preparation to give rather getting ready to receive. What do u think about this?

My lovely prada card holder and a briefcase probably

This dec month got a big catch for me. Happen to sign up a cm with 670k annual income. Call me back for max cap loan. If being approve for 8x cl she can take a 400k loan then i get $4,800 comm on her alone. Finger crossed because the procedure is very hinderous with TDSR policy and risky trade for bank to grant up to 8x cl. 

If i close her i shall buy my dream bag from prada! 


Fuck!! This bag is a no joke can? All serious and elegant. Very loud yet in a subtle approach. Total blow me off when the saleman open the side with an a4 folder compartment. This is what i had been looking for. 


Went to paragon to have a look and see it is whooping $3,480!! I cannot part with this money unless my loan gets approved. That will be my motivation! I marry anyone who buy me this as a present. 


Instead i stumble upon this nice card holder and decide to invest in it. $360 for just this small little card holder. But for the functionality and style, i think its totally worth it and i love it so far. 


Mo chen one of the top sale from my batch. An example how being in a right team and given the correct assistant can make such a big different. 

Just put up a good fight for nov month target. Remember i was always shorting on loan, surprisingly nov i sail through my loan with 72k due to my able to convert and ping pong the staff loan. One cm and i hit my target. Last week for me is an all out 7 days at instant branches. Fight ntb and slide app for instant and i was happy that i catch up my 11 ntb in the last 7 days. Also noting that i return paul loan by giving one ntb back. 


Korean bbq with van and brough ipad mini retina. I think i might had overspent this month. Fuck. 


Van's paycheck for the month in cash ^^ earn more than me. If our income can be subtained, buying palm oasis is not a dream anymore. However i don't think our pay is subtainable. We were both in the quick cash industries.